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omfg :3
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mc2547PJa91r34qiso1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://with-a-why.tumblr.com/post/43812548003/omfg-3"&gt;with-a-why&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;omfg :3&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951783248</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951783248</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:52:38 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c3d0f49160a71164c4c60dbb0d37613e/tumblr_mioquxvQbq1qzjggvo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951716375</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951716375</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:51:55 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e98b3b34401474914867c4d77fa558f6/tumblr_mhge22yEfi1r5vp1oo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951705945</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951705945</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:51:49 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter..."</title><description>“You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance — you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and continues to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Daniell Koepke (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://33113.tumblr.com/"&gt;33113&lt;/a&gt;)

&lt;p&gt;My life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951529263</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951529263</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:49:50 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Ohmygod</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0ks05OjmL1r7845vo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ohmygod&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951263658</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951263658</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:46:58 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1cb31e778c6f3953581f1740ad0fd4fa/tumblr_mink3r44yE1rzsk2go1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951253088</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951253088</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:46:51 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>ne-uw:

ma-ui:

my thoughts exactly


Wise</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_maabv5tqfM1qdm00xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://ne-uw.tumblr.com/post/43847927527/ma-ui-my-thoughts-exactly-wise" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;ne-uw&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ma-ui.tumblr.com/post/31456276675/my-thoughts-exactly"&gt;ma-ui&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;my thoughts exactly&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Wise&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951177823</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43951177823</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:46:02 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/76f1a6290b82ab14f66a2842fb513677/tumblr_mgz6prcjky1rtri0vo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43950771270</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43950771270</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:41:34 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"One day I decided that I was beautiful, and so I carried out my life as if I was a beautiful girl. I..."</title><description>“One day I decided that I was beautiful, and so I carried out my life as if I was a beautiful girl. I wear colors that I really like, I wear makeup that makes me feel pretty, and it really helps. It doesn’t have anything to do with how the world perceives you. What matters is what you see. Your body is your temple, it’s your home, and you must decorate it.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Gabourey Sidibe  (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://cityyandcolour.tumblr.com/"&gt;cityyandcolour&lt;/a&gt;)

&lt;p&gt;Lovee&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43950721968</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/43950721968</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 21:41:02 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b430ba1e336ddf913490b936328cf9c6/tumblr_mhbbk7dJJr1qcvzezo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760693460</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760693460</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2013 23:06:45 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/41c4e981ee04135b6f7f7293d48eda38/tumblr_mhba8gqyIg1qbem6lo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760682447</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760682447</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2013 23:06:36 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9d0d83ccf4aaf018a61e98e622f3c1da/tumblr_mhbf5uS5qO1rm177xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760414755</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760414755</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2013 23:03:15 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8iqaxKJvo1qeccpho1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760249609</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760249609</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2013 23:01:11 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9vni6T43b1rx0x5qo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760220211</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760220211</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2013 23:00:49 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>theanimalblog:

Bear Shake. Photo by Tin Man</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/644b459fc3046d6517b3018d7c5e5ab1/tumblr_mhd1eeBZIB1qzya49o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://theanimalblog.tumblr.com/post/41739355881/bear-shake-photo-by-tin-man" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;theanimalblog&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bear Shake. Photo by &lt;a href="http://500px.com/photo/24359097?from=popular"&gt;Tin Man&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760080184</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41760080184</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2013 22:59:09 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"You don’t know anyone at the party, so you don’t want to go. You don’t like cottage cheese, so you..."</title><description>“You don’t know anyone at the party, so you don’t want to go. You don’t like cottage cheese, so you haven’t eaten it in years. This is your choice, of course, but don’t kid yourself: it’s also the flinch. 

&lt;p&gt;Your personality is not set in stone. You may think a morning coffee is the most enjoyable thing in the world, but it’s really just a habit. Thirty days without it, and you would be fine. You think you have a soul mate, but in fact you could have had any number of spouses. You would have evolved differently, but been just as happy.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You can change what you want about yourself at any time. You see yourself as someone who can’t write or play an instrument, who gives in to temptation or makes bad decisions, but that’s really not you. It’s not ingrained. It’s not your personality. Your personality is something else, something deeper than just preferences, and these details on the surface, you can change anytime you like.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If it is useful to do so, you must abandon your identity and start again. Sometimes, it’s the only way.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Set fire to your old self. It’s not needed here. It’s too busy shopping, gossiping about others, and watching days go by and asking why you haven’t gotten as far as you’d like. This old self will die and be forgotten by all but family, and replaced by someone who makes a difference. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Your new self is not like that. Your new self is the Great Chicago Fire—overwhelming, overpowering, and destroying everything that isn’t necessary. &lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://wendesgray.tumblr.com"&gt;Julien Smith&lt;/a&gt; (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ofbirdsandmoons.tumblr.com/"&gt;ofbirdsandmoons&lt;/a&gt;)

&lt;p&gt;Love this&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41759974801</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41759974801</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2013 22:57:50 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ccb7085ae137a77fbc8fe1428bcdf6df/tumblr_mh1dx2G0QZ1qg6rkio1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41400851409</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41400851409</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2013 19:57:11 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me0pterTj21re0ffwo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41400815419</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41400815419</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2013 19:56:46 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/333d2c15e1b061e0b6e6287904965199/tumblr_mgb88gQ4Vj1r952e9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41342170425</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41342170425</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2013 00:35:02 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me96z7KNkN1qajjdco1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41341995405</link><guid>http://shelbyannegrassman.tumblr.com/post/41341995405</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2013 00:32:09 -0500</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
